Lesson 6 Contd: Conclusion

PASSION: You have to be passionate about every quality your partner possesses, don’t ever appreciate or admire another person more than your own fiancé or fiancée, especially in his or her presence, this may easy destroy your relationship if care is not taken .You have to valve what you have, because there is no way you can have the best, unless you make what you have the best.

TRANSPARENCY: It is very important that you operate transparently in a relationship, because if your partner realizes that you are too secretive, he may find it very difficult to trust you and before you know it , you relationship has been in stumble.

Lesson 5 Contd

7. TRUST: Whatever your partner tells you don’t doubt it, just believe it’s the truth. but if you discover any changes, call him or her to order, and try to caution him or her .It ‘s part of your duty .But please, don’t ever plan to marry somebody you don’t trust , if you do, your future is at risk!
8. POSITIVE TONGUE: Don’t ever curse or use any abusive statement against your partner, some people are in this bad habit, they can curse their fiancée because of some or minor issue, some may even be mocking their partner s with their weaknesses. This is very bad!

Lesson 4 contd: Principles to guide Courtship

5. ACCEPT TO BE CORRECTED: You don’t to be too stubborn, whenever you do something wrong and you are told, you just to accept the fault and render an instant apology. You must not argue too much over an unnecessary issue, just accept your fault and make the necessary amendment. Then you have to shun the habit of going back to what you have corrected of, this atimes may be very destructive in relationship.
6. FORGIVENESS : One thing is to forgive, but the more important is to forget .Once you have pronounced forgiveness over an issue, you don’t need to make comment on it anymore, let it be forgotten forever

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Lesson3 contd:
4. Don’t be an ingrate: any big or small your partner does for you,you must show a big appreciation so that he or she will be happy and encourage to do more .An ingrate can only be compared as to a marauder ,can you now see how bad it is?

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Lesson 2 Contd:
3. Don’t be Stingy: Stinginess is very discouraging habit in relationship, it has destroyed many courtships and it remains the nagging problem of many people in getting a reliable partner .Your fiancé or fiancée must lack anything you can easily and conveniently provide. If you are a young man and you have started stingy at this stage,I doubt your mind of providing for the family.I did’nt mean you should spoil the young lady with worldly things or attract her with your money,but you should not allow her to suffer some basic things,which are conveniently capable of providing.The ladies too must be in the habit of giving, because if you are a stingy type, the man may be confused as to whether you won’t be assistance to him at the any hard time of his life after he might have married you,discourage him and cause him to run away from you.