LOVE

Love is a master key

It is a balm that heals the wounded

In relationship

The ointment that mends broken heart

And smoothens the rough edge of life

It is the sparks that brings light, sunshine

And joy in a dark and gloomy world

Without love human life will be dwarfed

Cheerless and hopeless

Love unite a total stranger to a soul mate

The universe language use by all

The preeminence of the foundation of the world

In which all other things were form

Love a charm that captivate both young and old

With its feeling so intense and unbreakable

The power of love cannot be quantify

To anything that has ever existed

God invented it and He did not mind

If we as His creatures borrowed the idea

These love is so encompassing

That it cross across race, color, ethnicity

Religious affiliation and distance

That is so expanse in length and distance

What a Love

What a gift to mankind

What a feeling so awesome in explainable

What an affection a sense of belonging

What do you feel? Are you feeling it

Deep down there right there in heart

The power of love

Can make you go the extra mile

With love you can climb the highest mountain

Can make you do beyond the ordinary

With love you come alive discovering the real you

Can make you swim and dive into the deepest seas

With love you do funny things

How will this world be without “Love”

Make sure is Love not Lust

When Respect is Gone

Love is a feeling so strong

To some explainable

To others in explainable

The feeling so charming and captivating

When we are in love we can feel it

But we cannot see it

Is a feeling between two individual (male & Female)

For love to grow

It takes time and nurturing

A lot of work is expected

To be done like a car needed

To be fueled at all time

Or else if not fueled it will die

Like a plant

needs to be watered at all time

if not watered it will die

like a baby that needs the care of the mother

breast feeding and well attended to

if not done in a proper sense

such a baby is prone to die

so love is

certain makes love grow

certain things mire love and makes it die

love is an affection towards one a soul mate

loves needs care, respect, understanding, trust

Faithfulness, sincerity and above all God’s fear

When respect is gone

Love can not grow

Respect is one of the core element

That makes a relationship work out

Lasting for a life time standing the test of time

Respect comes into play

In dealing with your soul mate

Respect him/her feelings

Never seek for an opportunity

To defraud him/her taken advantage

Reference and correct each other in respect

Remember when RESPECT is gone LOVE cannot grow.

Lesson 6 Contd: Conclusion

PASSION: You have to be passionate about every quality your partner possesses, don’t ever appreciate or admire another person more than your own fiancé or fiancée, especially in his or her presence, this may easy destroy your relationship if care is not taken .You have to valve what you have, because there is no way you can have the best, unless you make what you have the best.

TRANSPARENCY: It is very important that you operate transparently in a relationship, because if your partner realizes that you are too secretive, he may find it very difficult to trust you and before you know it , you relationship has been in stumble.

Lesson 5 Contd

7. TRUST: Whatever your partner tells you don’t doubt it, just believe it’s the truth. but if you discover any changes, call him or her to order, and try to caution him or her .It ‘s part of your duty .But please, don’t ever plan to marry somebody you don’t trust , if you do, your future is at risk!
8. POSITIVE TONGUE: Don’t ever curse or use any abusive statement against your partner, some people are in this bad habit, they can curse their fiancée because of some or minor issue, some may even be mocking their partner s with their weaknesses. This is very bad!

Lesson 4 contd: Principles to guide Courtship

5. ACCEPT TO BE CORRECTED: You don’t to be too stubborn, whenever you do something wrong and you are told, you just to accept the fault and render an instant apology. You must not argue too much over an unnecessary issue, just accept your fault and make the necessary amendment. Then you have to shun the habit of going back to what you have corrected of, this atimes may be very destructive in relationship.
6. FORGIVENESS : One thing is to forgive, but the more important is to forget .Once you have pronounced forgiveness over an issue, you don’t need to make comment on it anymore, let it be forgotten forever

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Lesson3 contd:
4. Don’t be an ingrate: any big or small your partner does for you,you must show a big appreciation so that he or she will be happy and encourage to do more .An ingrate can only be compared as to a marauder ,can you now see how bad it is?

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Lesson 2 Contd:
3. Don’t be Stingy: Stinginess is very discouraging habit in relationship, it has destroyed many courtships and it remains the nagging problem of many people in getting a reliable partner .Your fiancé or fiancée must lack anything you can easily and conveniently provide. If you are a young man and you have started stingy at this stage,I doubt your mind of providing for the family.I did’nt mean you should spoil the young lady with worldly things or attract her with your money,but you should not allow her to suffer some basic things,which are conveniently capable of providing.The ladies too must be in the habit of giving, because if you are a stingy type, the man may be confused as to whether you won’t be assistance to him at the any hard time of his life after he might have married you,discourage him and cause him to run away from you.

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COURTSHIP GUIDES SERIES

Courtship is an act of developing closeness with the opposite sex, especially with the hope of getting marrying each other .One thing that should be noted by youths is the fact that marital success is one the major determinant of one’s breakthrough in life, and the making of it is surely starts from somewhere, which is courtship or dating .Relationship at the level is very important as it gives insight the structure of the proposed home. If you fail at this stage and you still go ahead in marriage, there is a reliable probability that you will fail martially.

Below are the principles to guide courtship to its promised land;

1. CONTROL YOUR ANGER: It is very natural for two people to have misunderstanding in some cases, but it should be allowed to become an incubus. Then, you are in this mood, you must not talk too much to avoid miss-commanding statement. One noted fact is that both of you are from different background and with different orientation, so discovered quickly, so that the relationship will not end up with dream unfulfilled.

2. HUMILITY: You have to be humble in relationship, pride should be totally discouraged .the ladies should learn to how to be submissive, because no man would like to marry a proud and too arrogant lady as wife .The bible says “pride goes before destruction”, therefore, humility is a very essential attitude in a relationship.

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