Thursday, April 15, 2010

COURTSHIP GUIDES

COURTSHIP GUIDES SERIES

Courtship is an act of developing closeness with the opposite sex, especially with the hope of getting marrying each other .One thing that should be noted by youths is the fact that marital success is one the major determinant of one’s breakthrough in life, and the making of it is surely starts from somewhere, which is courtship or dating .Relationship at the level is very important as it gives insight the structure of the proposed home. If you fail at this stage and you still go ahead in marriage, there is a reliable probability that you will fail martially.

Below are the principles to guide courtship to its promised land;

1. CONTROL YOUR ANGER: It is very natural for two people to have misunderstanding in some cases, but it should be allowed to become an incubus. Then, you are in this mood, you must not talk too much to avoid miss-commanding statement. One noted fact is that both of you are from different background and with different orientation, so discovered quickly, so that the relationship will not end up with dream unfulfilled.

2. HUMILITY: You have to be humble in relationship, pride should be totally discouraged .the ladies should learn to how to be submissive, because no man would like to marry a proud and too arrogant lady as wife .The bible says “pride goes before destruction”, therefore, humility is a very essential attitude in a relationship.